is this a good Slr camera.what sort of things do i have to go for in SLR cameras i am just starting out
OK, first off, lets dispel some mis-information.
All Nikon f-mount lenses will fit the D40 and D40x. The newer lenses(AF-D,AF-G) lenses will meter, but not autofocus. Only the AF-S and Sigma HSM motor lenses will autofocus with the D40. Anything older than the AF-D/G lenses will mount but not meter or autofocus.
ANY SLR/DSRL is better than any point and shoot camera. I gross generalization, but 99% of the time true. The Nikon D40 is a great camera, as are all the Nikon and Canon entry level cameras.
People at camera stores generally get paid on commission. Since the D40 is at the lowest end of what Nikon sells as far as price goes, they will try and upsell you. Look at the reviews online of the D40 and D40x and you will see a completely different story than what the other poster stated they got at Wolf.
Just do a web search on "Nikon D40 reviews" and look at all the sites that have reviewed this body designation and kit lens. I think you’ll see what I mean.

Its awesome. to be fair be fair if your spending that much on a digital camera you’ll get a good one. Have a look at the sony aswell.
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